We’ve all looked lousy in photos. These tips can help.

Photos influence the way we see the world — and ourselves. These tips can help you control the way you look on camera.

January 17, 2024 at 8:00 a.m. EST
(Photography by Linnea Bullion for The Washington Post; production design by Jack Reed)
7 min

We spend our entire lives looking at our own faces. Cameras, meanwhile, have mere moments to capture them.

And because cameras can’t “see” the world the way human eyes can, is it any surprise they can reproduce our image in ways that don’t always feel right?

Photography has fueled our shared visual culture since at least the mid-1800s, and there’s little to suggest that’ll change soon. But even though we can’t completely control the way cameras — and everyone else — see us, there are things we can do, and facets of photography that we can learn to take more control of our images.

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