Opinion 13 parents share the best reasons to have children

Letters and Community Editor and Columnist|
May 10, 2023 at 6:00 a.m. EDT
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13 min

“People love to tell expecting or new parents that their lives are going to be miserable,” Reason magazine senior editor Elizabeth Nolan Brown tweeted in March. A reckoning with the hardest parts of motherhood, she argued, has become a dire overcorrection. “Parenting needs better PR.”

Indeed it does. And when I asked, these 12 other parents were eager to share what they’d tell anyone considering having kids. Their families come in all sizes, and these moms and dads have a wide range of political perspectives. But they all agree that parenting is sublime — even, and maybe especially, when the job involves illness, loss or an out-of-the-blue creepy question about construction-site skeletons.