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The first Christmas as a layperson: Burned out by the pandemic, many clergy quit in the past year

December 24, 2021 at 7:00 p.m. EST
The Rev. Alyssa Aldape wraps gifts with her fiance, Nick Schaufelberger, at their home in Washington this week. Aldape is among the many clergy who left ministry during the pandemic. (Michael S. Williamson/The Washington Post)
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It was Christmas Eve and the Rev. Alyssa Aldape was getting ready for work. Over her decade in Baptist youth ministry, Dec. 24 meant prepping sermons at the church, sending out last-minute Christmas emails to her young people, robing up. After church, her Mexican American family would have tamales.

But this Christmas Eve day, Aldape was in her Van Ness apartment, in a green turtleneck and jeans, drinking iced coffee and getting ready for her shift at the retailer Madewell. She’d clock in, then spend the afternoon folding sweaters and greeting last-minute holiday shoppers at the door with her big smile and “Hi! Welcome!”