Democracy Dies in Darkness

How Helene, a Jewish Holocaust survivor, became Leila, the matriarch of a Palestinian Muslim clan

January 22, 2020 at 5:00 a.m. EST
Leila Jabarin, 78, sits with her grandchildren, from left, Aladdin, Mohammed and Khaled, at their home in Umm al-Fahm, Israel, on Jan. 7. (David Vaaknin for The Washington Post)

UMM AL-FAHM, Israel — Leila Jabarin looked every inch the matriarch of the Muslim family that surrounded her on a recent morning, encircled by some of her 36 grandchildren in a living room rich with Arabic chatter and the scent of cardamom-
flavored coffee.

But Jabarin, her hair covered with a brown headscarf, was talking to visitors in Hebrew, not Arabic, and telling a story that not even her seven children knew until they were grown. She was born not Leila Jabarin, but Helene Berschatzky, not a Muslim but a Jew. Her history began not in this Arab community where she has made her life with the Palestinian man she fell in love with six decades ago, but in a Nazi concentration camp where her Jewish parents had to hide their newborn from the Nazis.