University of California campus in Berkeley. (Eric Risberg/AP)

Shattered by college rejections? That’s happening a lot this year. Take a soothing bath in the wisdom of Steve Becker. He knows how to put you in a better mood, unless, of course, you need the envy of others to enjoy the application process.

Becker has created an exceptional website, lesshighschoolstress.com. My book “Harvard Schmarvard” argues as he does that failing to get into a selective school isn’t a problem, but he buttresses his case with remarkable data that I have never seen.